Words of affirmation. Complimenting. “I didn’t think you needed help with the USB cable because you’re so smart.” Quality time. You want your husband …

Truly, Madly, Guiltily, by Ayelet Waldman, NYTimes, March 27, 2005 I have been in many mothers' groups - Mommy and Me, Gymboree, Second-Time Moms - an…